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Nick Lowe - "Cruel to Be Kind"

Nick Lowe - "Cruel to Be Kind" [mp3]

Basher: The Best of Nick Lowe [Amazon]

Read the lyrics and look for the literary devices in the song.



Having apprenticed with '60s band Kippington Lodge and '70s pub-rock pioneers Brinsley Schwarz, Nick Lowe became a shining beacon of traditional pop values-wit, concision, unbanishable tunes-amidst the punk furor of the late '70s. This collection is a generous 25-song single-CD selection from eight albums and a few stray singles spanning almost a decade. It may be too generous-the inclusion of a number of so-so songs and failed experiments hampers its playability. But there are still well over a dozen gems here, including his sole hit, the sparkling, textbook classic-pop masochist's anthem "Cruel to Be Kind;" the ominous voodoo breakdown "Cracking Up;" and the delightfully perverse "Marie Provost," a sumptuous power-pop tune affixed to the horrific tale of a silent-film actress who dies alone and is eaten by her starving dog. There are also at least two songs exploring Lowe's strange obsession with backstage guest lists (first single "So It Goes" and the stately "Little Hitler"), the best version of the pub-rock classic "Switchboard Susan" (containing every conceivable phone/sex double entendre [an ambiguous statement that has two meanings, one of which may be risque] ), and a number of crisp rockers abetted by Rockpile, the brilliant band that, credited or not, played on much of members Lowe and Dave Edmunds's best work.

Source: Amazon.


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Lyrics: Nick Lowe - "Cruel To Be Kind"

Download "Cruel To Be Kind" here.



Oh, I can't take another heartache
Though you say, oh my friend, I'm at my wit's end
You say your love is bonafide [genuine; true], but that don't coincide
With the things that you do and when I ask you to be nice
You say you've got to be…

Cruel to be kind in the right measure
Cruel to be kind it's a very good sign
Cruel to be kind means that I love you
Baby, got to be cruel, you got to be cruel to be kind
Well I do my best to understand dear
But you still mystify and I want to know
why I pick myself up off the ground
to have you knock me back down
Again and again and when I ask you to explain
You say, you've got to be…

Well I do my best to understand dear
But you still mystify and I want to know why
I pick myself up off the ground
to have you knock me back down
Again and again and when I ask you to explain
You say, you've got to be…


The phrase "cruel to be kind" is an oxymoron, and this approach to love can be considered paradoxical.

  • oxymoron: the combination of two contradictory words or phrases for dramatic effect (The word "oxymoron" is itself an oxymoron: in Greek, "oxy" means "sharp" and "moros" means "dull." )
  • paradox: a statement that seems to be contradictory or unbelievable but that may actually be true

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